Top 5 Summer Mistakes Hockey Parents Make and How to Avoid Them

Summer is here, and while the season offers a golden chance for kids to relax and recharge, it also brings a unique set of challenges for hockey families. In a recent episode of Our Kids Play Hockey, Lee Elias, Christie Casciano Burns, and Mike Bonelli unpacked the five most common mistakes hockey parents make during the off-season—and more importantly, how to avoid them.

Whether you're approaching summer, deep in it, or planning for next year, these insights will help you find the right balance for your young athlete.

☀️ Mistake #1: Over-Scheduling with Camps and Clinics

The Issue:
Parents often feel the pressure to keep their kids "caught up" or ahead of the curve. That leads to back-to-back clinics, training camps, and one-on-one sessions—leaving little room for actual rest.

What to Do Instead:

• Choose 1–3 well-timed hockey camps that are fun and developmentally appropriate.

• Opt for unstructured ice time like public skating or stick-and-puck.

• Ask your child what they want to do—and really listen.

Key Reminder:
“Six camps in eight weeks is insane,” says Lee. If your kid is smiling and enjoying the game, you’re doing it right.

⚾ Mistake #2: Ignoring Off-Ice Skills & Physical Literacy

The Issue:
Focusing solely on hockey year-round can stunt overall athletic and cognitive development.

What to Do Instead:

• Encourage other sports like baseball, soccer, or swimming.

• Explore non-sport interests—music, art, or creative play.

• Remember: A well-rounded child often becomes a better athlete (and person).

Key Quote:
“Growth doesn’t always mean grinding.”

🏖️ Mistake #3: Not Letting Kids Be Kids

The Issue:
Overtraining and pressure turn summer into a second season—one that can lead to burnout and early exits from the game.

What to Do Instead:

• Prioritize family time, vacations, and fun.

• Create memories beyond the rink: beach days, Slurpees, pickup games.

• Allow for rest and boredom—both are essential for creativity and growth.

🧠 Mistake #4: Obsessing Over Next Season Too Early

The Issue:
Talking about line combos, stats, and tryouts in July stresses everyone out—especially your kid.

What to Do Instead:

• Focus on the present.

• Use this time to build confidence, curiosity, and love for the game.

• Trust that coaches will evaluate players during the season—not before it.

Quote to Remember:
“Look to the future, reflect on the past, but live where your skates are.”

💬 Mistake #5: Neglecting Mental & Emotional Wellness

The Issue:
Kids internalize pressure—even when they don’t show it. Lack of structure in the summer can amplify stress, especially if they feel like they’re “falling behind.”

What to Do Instead:

• Create space for open conversations.

• Share motivational videos or stories and talk about them.

• Use car rides and casual settings to check in emotionally.

Pro Tip:
Start building trust early. Strong emotional bonds in youth often carry into adulthood—and beyond hockey.

Final Thoughts: It’s All About Balance

Every child and every family is different. The key is finding a rhythm that works for you. Some kids may thrive on more ice time, others need more downtime. The golden rule? If your kid is still smiling, you’re on the right track.

Keep it fun. Stay supportive. And most importantly—enjoy the ride.

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Happy summer, hockey families! 🏒🌞