You Can’t Text “I’m Open!” — Why Hockey Players Need Real Conversations

🏒 Introduction: A Modern Communication Breakdown

“Okay.” “K.” “👍.”
Three words — or symbols — that can cause a whole lot of confusion.

In this episode of The Ride To The Rink, Mike and Lee dive into the growing challenge facing young athletes everywhere: we’re losing the art of conversation. Texting might be fast and easy, but it’s missing one thing every great team needs — tone and connection.

💬 The Problem: Texting Can’t Carry Emotion

When you text a teammate or coach, your message has no tone, no body language, and no context. That “K” you sent while distracted could easily be read as dismissive or annoyed. And before you know it, you’ve got tension on your team — all because of a misread message.

As Mike explains, “Texting doesn’t allow context — it doesn’t let someone know you’re busy or distracted.”
In hockey (and in life), context matters.

🗣️ Why Verbal Communication Is a Game-Changer

Lee puts it simply: “You can’t text that you’re open during a game.”
Verbal communication — on and off the ice — is a skill. The best players are often the best communicators. They call out plays, support their teammates, and speak with confidence.

Learning to talk to teammates, coaches, and adults builds leadership and earns respect. It’s not about being loud — it’s about being clear and connected.

📱 The Permanent Nature of Texts

Texting can also create lasting issues. Once you hit send, that message is forever. Screenshots travel faster than a slap shot, and even a single misunderstood text can damage trust.

Mike reminds players: “Be conscious of how you’re presenting your words — because once it’s out there, you can’t take it back.”

💡 Practical Tips to Communicate Better

• Pause before you text — especially when emotional.

• Pick up the phone if something feels off.

• Talk in person whenever possible.

• Remember your tone doesn’t come through in writing.

• Practice verbal communication the same way you practice skating or shooting.

These small changes can transform how you connect with teammates, coaches, and even parents.

❤️ The Big Takeaway

At its heart, this episode is about connection. Texting is part of life — and that’s okay — but it can’t replace real conversation. Hockey is a team sport built on communication, trust, and leadership. And those skills start with learning to talk.

So next time you reach for your phone, think twice. Maybe a quick “Hey, can we chat?” will do more for your team than any emoji ever could.

🏁 Closing Thoughts

As Mike and Lee remind players every week: you’ve got the tools to succeed — on the ice and beyond.
Practice your voice, your tone, your confidence. Because in hockey and in life, great communicators always stand out.

🎧 Catch the full episode of The Ride To The Rink wherever you get your podcasts.
Keep talking. Keep growing. Keep skating forward.