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Our Kids Play Hockey is a podcast that focuses on youth hockey, offering insights, stories, and interviews from the hockey community. It provides valuable advice for parents, coaches, and players, covering various aspects of the game, including skill development, sportsmanship, teamwork, and creating a positive experience for young athletes. The show frequently features guests who share their expertise and personal experiences in youth hockey, both on and off the ice.
Oct. 30, 2026

The Ride to the Rink: Elite Is a Journey, Not a Destination with Duncan Fletcher

The Ride to the Rink: Elite Is a Journey, Not a Destination with Duncan Fletcher
Our Kids Play Hockey
The Ride to the Rink: Elite Is a Journey, Not a Destination with Duncan Fletcher

Want to become an elite hockey player? Learn why improvement, persistence, skill work, and interests outside hockey matter more than labels.

Key Takeaways

  • Being elite in youth hockey is not defined by the logo on your jersey, but rather by the consistent daily habits and behaviors you build over time.
  • Athlete-development expert Duncan Fletcher emphasizes that truly elite young players are rare, and there is no shame in working toward that level at your own pace.
  • Pushing yourself into uncomfortable situations on and off the ice is essential for genuine skill improvement and long-term player development.
  • Engaging in outside hobbies, music, school, or other sports can actually make you a more well-rounded and successful hockey player.
  • Focusing on getting just a little bit better every day matters far more than rushing to reach the next competitive level overnight.

🏒 What does it actually mean to be “elite” in hockey?

Is it the team you play for?

The logo on your jersey?

The level next to your name?

Or is it something you build over time?

In this episode of The Ride to the Rink, Lee Elias and Mike Bonelli are joined by athlete-development expert Duncan Fletcher to speak directly to young players about what being elite really means.

Duncan explains that truly elite young players are incredibly rare—and that there is absolutely nothing wrong with still working toward that level.

The important part is what you do along the way.

🎧 In this episode:

🏒 What “elite” really means in youth hockey
⛸️ Why skating and puck skills still matter so much
💪 How pushing into uncomfortable situations helps you improve
📈 Why getting a little better every day is more important than rushing to the next level
🧠 Why persistence and mental toughness matter
🎸 How hobbies, school, music, and other sports can actually make you a better hockey player
🎯 Why elite behavior matters before elite status
❤️ Why your hockey journey does not need to happen overnight

One of Duncan’s most surprising lessons is that if you want to become a better hockey player, you should have something meaningful in your life away from hockey too.

That could be another sport.

Music.

School.

A hobby.

Anything that excites you and challenges you in a different way.

The best players are not always the ones doing hockey every second of every day.

They are curious.

They keep learning.

They keep pushing themselves.

And they understand that becoming elite is not one moment.

It is a long process built through small improvements.

So do not rush.

Keep working.

Keep learning.

Keep enjoying the game.

And focus on becoming a little better than you were yesterday.

📖 Want a written version you can reference anytime? Check out our companion blog: Elite Is a Journey: What Young Hockey Players Should Really Focus On

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Frequently Asked Questions

What does it mean to be elite in youth hockey according to Duncan Fletcher?

Duncan Fletcher explains that being elite is a journey and a mindset built through small, daily improvements and elite behaviors, rather than just the team or jersey you play for.

Why should youth hockey players have hobbies outside of hockey?

Having interests outside of hockey, such as music, school, or other sports, keeps players curious, prevents burnout, and challenges them in different ways that ultimately help them on the ice.

How can young hockey players improve their skills effectively?

Young players can improve by focusing on core skating and puck skills, embracing uncomfortable situations to foster growth, and concentrating on getting slightly better every single day.