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Hello hockey friends and families around the world and welcome to our newest series on Our Kids Play Hockey, aptly titled Our Girls Play Hockey.
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I'm Lee Elias and I'm joined by Mike Benelli and our newest addition to the hosting team, sherry Hudspeth from the Vegas Golden Knights.
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Our goal with this show is to tackle the topics and discussions surrounding girls' youth hockey, to better give the game something for everyone and, simply put, if you're involved in youth hockey in any way, we are going to provide value and insight to create both a better environment and experience for everyone involved.
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The format for this show is going to differ slightly from our normal programming.
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Each episode will introduce a topic or a question to discuss, and each episode will have a featured expert panelist from around the game to engage in that discussion.
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For this episode, we will be discussing how to start a girls program, and our expert panelist is the former captain of Colgate University's ice hockey team, who today serves as the player development senior manager with the Seattle Kraken, a team you may have heard of.
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Ladies and gentlemen, please join me in welcoming Kaitlyn Parker to the show today.
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Kaitlyn, thank you for joining us on Our Girls Play Hockey.
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Awesome.
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Thanks for having me.
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No, thank you for being here.
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I'm going to toss this right over to Sherry.
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Sherry, you're franchise 31 with the Knights.
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We're interviewing franchise 32 with the Kraken.
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Where do we even start today?
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Yeah, caitlin, really excited you're here.
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Thanks for joining us.
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Caitlin and I have worked together here in the West Coast growing girls hockey through our work through USA Hockey.
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We're both in the NHLCA Coaches Development Program and, yeah, we're both just doing a lot to grow youth hockey here on the West Coast.
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So excited to talk to Caitlin today and I think one of the first questions I want to get into is, you know, starting a new girls program, starting a new girls team get asked a lot, you know, by parents, volunteers, if they don't have access to an NHL club and the resources that we have with NHL club is, say, you're in like Wyoming or Oregon or something like that, and you want to start a girls team.
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You know what are some of the questions that we need to ask to get started to grow girls team, like do you go to a board?
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Do you start an independent team?
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Where do we start?
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I think, yeah, it's a.
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It's a hard question and I know there are some stipulations through USA hockey with if you're a new association or existing association.
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So I always say, start with your district rep and just try to ask some questions about hey, what does this take?
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What rules or regulations are in place that maybe potential hurdles that I'm going to have to jump over to starting these.
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And I think the biggest thing and sharing you and I probably have a lot of experiences that is starting at the grassroots level.
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So mass numbers is so important to starting a sustainable girls hockey team.
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Finding ways that you can get in to that lower level at the start.
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So now you're building your pipeline for a longer time, which just creates more longevity within your program.
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Now, saying that that doesn't always work and I think, too, figuring out ways that you can be creative and utilize your space and maybe it is utilizing different ages together to build this community and really pull the girls in and get more girls involved, because the more girls you have on the ice, then the better is.
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Hey, we might be able to form a team or we can play an in-house league and you're still giving it a similar experience for those players and families, experience for those players and families, and from there that's just the mini step.
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I would say to trying to build this long staircase to having a sustainable team.
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You know, Caitlin, it's funny we're bringing this up.
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I always feel like we should have titled this episode.
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So you Want to Build a Girls Hockey Team?
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Yeah, One of the questions and you're kind of diving into this is, I think we should establish for the listeners the must haves to starting a girls program.
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Right, you know, and I'm thinking things like that, you need to think about, if you want to do this, ice time, uniforms, facilities, coaches, et cetera.
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You talked about the district rep, you talked about the people you need to go through, right?
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So why don't we, why don't we identify the must haves?
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the things that you need to think about if you're looking to do this to starting a girls program.
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To be honest, I think it's just a really passionate leader.
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You don't have that.
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It is so hard.
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There are so many hurdles, there are so many different challenges that you're going to face throughout the time of doing it and the leader is the person that's going to be the face of what you're trying to do.
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They're going to have to share the message of your programming to people, to families, to get them excited about it.
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And then, from a non-ice standard um, like they're the ones that is leading it right, like if they bring the energy, they bring the excitement it makes those players and those girls and families want to come back to the rink every single time, which now you start to develop that love and I think everyone on this podcast understands like hockey is is definitely like a passion project.
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It's something that you love, like you're ingrained in it.
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It's develop that love and I think everyone on this podcast understands like hockey is is definitely like a passion project.
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It's something that you love, like you're ingrained in it.
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It's probably had some great memories in your life or different experiences that have led you to where you are today and has been part of it.
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But for those that have never experienced that, you have to allow them into that family in that larger community right away, and once you do that, I think it's they get hooked and now you can start to build it.
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But it starts with that first forward facing person that is going to talk to these people to convince them hey, you should spend your sunny July 20th in a freezing ice cold rink, right Like maybe if you're in Las Vegas, it's awesome.
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Yeah, 110.
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Way too rainy.
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All the rest of the year we want to be outside.
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So how do we create that to make people want to come to rings?
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I love that you said that, because we are recording this in June and it's very hot right now as we record these episodes, and you may be listening to this episode in the summer or the winter or any time during the year.
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The other thing I love about the passion that you bring up is I know 100% there is someone listening to this episode right now.
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It might be a mom, might be a dad, might be someone just graduated college who goes I am that person and you're affirming that person right now by saying this.
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So let's kind of turn towards that a little bit, because I want to motivate that person right now.
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They're listening to you.
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What's your message to them before we move forward of?
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You know, let's make this happen.
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You know what I mean.
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Yeah, I think it will be the greatest challenge of your life, but the greatest joy of your life as well, and that is something that everyone thinks.
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Youth hockey is maybe sunshine and rainbows.
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The reality is there are some dark and cloudy, gray days, but at the same time, I think when you see a kid whether it's female or male, or fall in love with this sport and have a light bulb moment, like well, you're teaching them on the ice or anything, that's what makes it worth it, and then it re-energizes you to want to be better for them.
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Um, and that's that's a couple things.
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There is like it's going to be really hard.
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It's going to be really hard, but it's going to be so rewarding.
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At the end of the day too, and and I think youth sports has it's a really hard market.
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It's a hard world to live in because there are so many outside factors that come into play.
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Like if all of us were on this podcast and we had a billion dollars in a rink, we'd probably run something super different if there weren't outside influences coming in and hey, I have an opinion here, or whatnot, and so I think it's a balancing act there that comes into it.
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But at the end of the day, when you find something and you do it for those kids and they love it, then it makes it all worth it.
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Well, if we had a billion dollars in a rink, that would be pretty nuts.
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And I do want to say this too it would be pretty awesome.
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Yeah, everyone on this call.
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I know this just from knowing all of you.
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We've all started a program in some form or some way, some of us multiple times.
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I'll say this too there's not ever been a kid.
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I have coached any kid, any type of kid.
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Anything that I didn't feel the enjoyment in coaching that young person in hockey?
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Right, I think that's one of those myths about the value of coaching someone.
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Right, I, I've loved coaching every kid, for the most part, that I've ever coached, regardless of of race, gender or anything in between.
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Now, someone who has created a lot of programs and does this on a basis daily is mike benelli.
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Mike, I am going to throw it to you because I know you have a question as well.
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Yeah, I mean it's actually to Caitlin and Sherry because I think what you know when you're in the confines of national governing bodies like USA hockey and hockey Canada and and you know a lot of you know we talked about the restrictions and and where you can get players from and how to grow a program.
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Can you maybe both talk a little bit about your experience on as starting these girls programs, the challenges of the and the differences of starting a girls program with a bunch of 14, 15, 16 year olds or, you know, really looking at the organic growth of a program, saying, hey, I'm going to leverage the NHL's learn to play program, I'm going to have a girls only, you know, six you and the patience it takes because you can rock the boat on both ways right, cause I've seen it on both sides Like, hey, I'm a billionaire, I build a rink, I'm stealing every girl from every program that I can get and I'm going to build, I'm going to develop those girls.
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I've developed them by stealing them right.
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Or billionaires, on the show today.
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All right, my first hockey program was from a disgruntled father who said I'm going to start my own program because I hate that program.
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I said, okay, let's go, let's do it.
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So I think it's like one of those things where you know, is it, is it the pros and cons of organically growing?
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Because I think for us on our audience, if you have a mom or dad that's sitting there with a seven-year-old and they're looking at the horizon, they're like, oh my God, there's no girls program here.
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Like later on, but now is the time to start it.
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Like not when you get there, not when you're 15 and go, wow, I don't have girls program, we should start one.
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Well, it's like it's very difficult to do that.
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So maybe just both of you talk a little bit about and maybe how the NHL clubs can even help within this ecosystem of forming that organic growth in the girls game.
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Yes, I can answer this one a couple of ways.
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So if you live in a market, you know you're outside of an NHL market.
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So I was in Johnstown, pennsylvania, and we were about an hour 15 from Pittsburgh.
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So we're kind of outside of that Penguins radius where we didn't have like as much resources as you would if you were in Pittsburgh.
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So they did not have girls hockey in Johnstown but they had boys hockey for 55 years.
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So they had an existing organization with the Johnstown Warriors.
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They were run by a board there and the board did a try hockey for free day for girls and out of this try hockey for free day they got like maybe 20 or 30 girls came but we noticed that they were all this like around the same age where it's like, hey, we can start a 12U girls team here and we had to get an exception to take some eight-year-olds and when we did practice I carried along some seven-year-olds and it's like if you're a girl and you want to play hockey like, we're not going to say no to you, you won't be able to play in the 12 U Paul league games but like you can practice with us if you're seven or eight, you know.
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You know, encouraging those girls to play.
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So a try hockey for free event created a girl's team, so that girl's team.
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So Johnstown organization added one girl's team, so added one girls team.
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So we played the season and then after that you start to lose some right.
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So now we have some girls that can play 14u and we have these eight-year-olds that are, you know, turning nine, so you can just kind of it kind of starts to grow and if you have a good season and we had our social media and and letting people know that there is girls hockey in this town now you know you can organically start to grow from you know that growth event and event and then just slowly, you know, year after year you have to have some patience with it where you're developing girls and taking any girls that want to play hockey and eventually you can start a team and then start to build out a program as they age up and then coming underneath doing more girls try hockey for free events in that town.
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You know, like that that sort of worked with the NHL backing here in Vegas.
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A little bit different.
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We have NHL learn to play where they get the equipment.
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It's a little bit easier, I think, with an NHL resources to get girls in.
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We have, you know, a little more access to ice time than you would in.
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You know a smaller town.
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So, caitlin, do you want to talk about how you're doing it with the Kraken?
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Yeah, I would say the first is finding a North Star.
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Are you building a competitive team?
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Are you building a recreation team?
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Is it learn to play base?
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Like what is that North Star that you're going to?
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And I think it can change.
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You can have this far distance goal and then you can also have shorter goals to it.
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So for us in our first year we were really small and I think it seemed like a lot back then, but now looking at it it seems like, wow, I missed the first year in some ways of it.
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But our first year we really focused just on those grassroots teams.
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So we only offered co-ed in our building and it was just a reason.
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We weren't sure what that clientele is going to be like, where our players were going to come from, and we really leaned on our learn to skate program and through our NHL program that Sherry was talking about, we require all our players to have taken some sort of learn to skate and really fortunate, like, yeah, and you guys do it as well.
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And actually Chad Goodwin came from las vegas, so he came from 31 to 32, which is great, so he knows what it was like and um started a massive learn to skate program.
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That was so great and I think it's.
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It's very rare that you're learning to skate, learn to play.
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Teens talk and communicate and he's been such a great resource for us and I think that's so important that you guys have to be on the same page of it and understanding some.
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Some kids are going to choose to to do skating, and that's totally great, and other kids are going to want to play hockey.
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But how can we make sure that that communication bridge is there between the two so it doesn't feel like you're on separate islands, but working together as a team, um, so we put a lot of resources into that first year and just did a ton of learn to play programs and for us, our learn to play was five to nine, so that is still a pretty big age gap for a lot of kids.
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But then you do have this entry to barrier of there's kids that are 10, 11, 12.
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That took learn to skate and now they want to play.
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We started a program called C-League, which is late start hockey essentially.
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So if you're in that older group it's a little bit longer.
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It's an hour on the ice, it's still once a week.
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You get a jersey.
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You have to come with this different group.
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They're a little bit older, so from a social dynamic it makes them feel a little bit better about it.
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But still, the practices, the ADM, putting them in station base, is very similar and the goal with that is that if it's an 11-year-old they take this SEAL League program for a year and the following year they have the possibility of joining our recreation program at the 12-year level.
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And that was something that was super successful.
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I think we had a ton of kids in that first year.
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And same with our Learn to Play program.
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And again you have such a wide age range that you're getting eight new players coming out of it.
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You're getting rising 10 new players and you can start to build it in that capacity.
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And I think our first year we had six teams.
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It was like two at every age level, from eight, 10, 12.
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And now last year we had 31 teams, not including our team.
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So it is something that all of a sudden it does explode and again, knowing, like Seattle's, a little different market than than Vegas and some of our other NHL clubs where there was existing hockey.
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So it's a balancing act too of hey, we want to start our own thing and build hockey players at the base, because it makes our state stronger, and realizing that parents and players are going to move around, whether that's from our association or to our association, and making it easy and accessible.
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But at the same time we want to make sure everyone can grow, because now we have local competition which, if you are on, I would say, like an island state, like we are, it's you want to be able to drive 20 minutes to play a game versus having to get on a flight and and go somewhere to play five games in a weekend there's a lot coming on this conversation.
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I've written down several questions.
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One of the ones you talked about uh, both caitlin and shry is that communication between clubs or between organizations, aside from this podcast.
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Are there places people can go to communicate about what has worked or hasn't worked within girls hockey, or is that something that needs to be developed, because I imagine that information sharing is vital at this point of growing the sport?
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Super vital.
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I think people sometimes like to hold their cards really close to their chest as well.
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Which is a shame.
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It is, and I think the hard part too is there's no right or wrong way, but the more we can work together the better.
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And again, it is really hard because there's not a mass volume of girls hockey players.
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Right.
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And that, I think, makes people nervous that if they share information or try to build it collectively, sometimes they're going to lose players.
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And again, that's one of the things I think is so great about being funded by the NHL is we have opportunities that I view.
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Opportunities that I view and I know Sherry's done such an awesome, awesome, tremendous job in Vegas is bringing in outside people to become new role models and using and leveraging that funding from the NHL for the female ambassador program to bring people in and, again, welcoming people from all over.
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So whether they're in our association or they're in the association next door, they're the association on the east side of the state welcoming them, them in, because they just might not be able to have that opportunity otherwise and and now they get to be part of it and and I think that's one of the things that we can you can be really savvy with how you you allow people to experience it, at the same time saying, hey, go back to your associations and I think if everyone worked in the sandbox together, it'd be awesome.
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Understanding that's probably not like the all reality, but we get times where you're at a usa hockey event or you're at events that are a little.
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I would say like more switzerland area like geneva you can talk to, and I do think like knowledge is power and, um, if anyone asks me any question, like I'm an open book, I am not by any means reinventing the wheel or have done something so magical that I'm gonna like patent it and sell it for your money.
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So I I think that's one of the things is, if we have more leaders like that, it just helps grow that space even more, and there are a lot of people in in the hockey world that are willing to share well, and I can say too, that when Sherry and our production team were developing the show, one of the main goals is to create that communication right.
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Because while I do understand the select few times where it's good to hold things to your chest, broadly I don't understand why we do that right.
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I think that and this isn't all of hockey, not just girls hockey why would we not share what's working across the board and you can go inter sport with that too.
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This doesn't even have to be limited to just ice hockey, right.
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But I'm I'm with you on this, caitlin, like this should be more of an open book conversation.
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We should be helping each other grow the game.
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The competition should be on the ice, right, not necessarily in growing the game.
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You both brought up something else, too, that I want to touch on that I actually didn't think about until you started talking about it.
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There's a culture piece to all this, in a team building essence, and, sherry, you actually made me think of this when you said that we have this 12U team but we invite seven-year-olds and eight-year-olds out to practice.
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Obviously, in most organizations that's somewhat unheard of.
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You would never do that.
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You would never invite younger kids.
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But when it comes to the amount of players and inspiring I don't want to say the next generation, but inspiring younger players to continue in the game.
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It's a big deal to invite them on the ice and say, like you said, hey, can't play in the games, but you're welcome here.
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Yeah.
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I think that's probably a major part of this, maybe in areas where girls hockey is not as prominent.
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I think if you have a heavy girls population, obviously, yeah, that probably won't work there.
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But if you're in like smaller rural towns, or even us in Vegas, where it's like there's not that many girls that play hockey, you know, like, compared to the boys, we have thousands of boys that play hockey but there's hundreds of girls that play hockey.
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So it's like if you can get five or six more girls, that's five or six more girls.
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You know, if they're in the game and they get an opportunity to be around the game, maybe make some friends that are girls.
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You know, like same for us, like our programming is co-ed.
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The only difference is, like our Vegas Junior Golden Knights.
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That's where it starts to really be girls only.
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So I mean, if you're seven or eight and you want to come out and practice, like this year, we're coach, I'm coaching 10, you have one girl, that's eight.
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You know it's like if you want to play, I'm not going to stop you from playing, especially.
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You know, like I don't want to say no to girls, cause it's so hard to get girls into hockey in.
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I probably had probably like seven girls only programs that I've kind of initiated and started and and they've always branched off of the boys.
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I mean, it's always, you know, it's, at the end of the day it's a business and you're like well how do I leverage?
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how do I get more?
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I see all these, all these sisters are here and all these little kids are running around the rink.
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How, how do we leverage them?
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And because of my, my usa lacrosse background and and seeing at the very young levels, it isn't co-ed like at lacrosse, it's like it's girls and boys and they and they divvy it up by age and you know hockey needs to catch up and again there's the barriers of money and equipment and that kind of stuff.
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And you know you look at girls lacrosse and how easy it is, right, you just get a stick and run use your soccer cleats, where the boys have to get helmets and shoulder pads and elbow pads and all this other stuff.
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So I think that's where hockey is very similar in.
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You know, how do you build your growth model?
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And I think I found and I'd love to hear from both of you because you've both played at very high levels in professional ranks and college ranks, university has been around a lot of pro girls and women.
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I've always found and this is my own personal experience that grouping girls together at the earliest ages six, seven, eight, nine years old it's so much more social and inviting and different.
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And again, I'm not saying you have to teach the girls differently.
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I yelled just as loud with the girls, the boys it's, but it's.
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Would you agree that it's for a parent that doesn't have the patience?
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Like here's dad, right, he played at Colgate and he's sitting there like she's gotta be, she's gotta be traveling across the country.
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At this point she's eight or no.
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How is she not?
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playing, playing an elite travel team.
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But you say, well, no, it's, it's social, it's it's more about the longer we keep them in the game, the better athletes are going to pop out and they're going to, they're going to expand.
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And I think within certain locations you still need that base because parents need to understand it's great that your daughter is a great athlete at six, but you need to make sure that we bring them all with us because when she's 12, there's no program here anymore, especially in small little towns.
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And now you're traveling, you know, on a plane to go play for another girls team.
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So maybe just to talk about the, the social aspect of why the girls game is so important to you know, try to put them together earlier and then have those great mentors and, you know, other women coaching those teams to to bring more, you know, girls into the tent.
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We, we don't say one thing or the other, we let it be up to the family.
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So we offer both pathways, um.
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So now we're we're in our second year of offering um just girls team within our association.
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It's still all recreation right now, um, but we let them choose.
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So, hey, you can come to co-ed and this is what it'll look like, or you can come to our all girls program and you'll be on a team.
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But we're in an area where our league, our girls teams, will still play against boys teams or co-ed teams at other associations, and the reason we did that is from just a easier scheduling.
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So they're still playing in like that local youth league.
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And there's a couple other associations that do have all girls.
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So maybe one every four games they're playing, they're going to play against an all girls competition and we work with those other associations to set up like a mini girls league within the greater league.
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But for us, when we were really analyzing what was the best thing, I'm a firm believer, like you, have to play.
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So if I'm telling the girls they can only play six games in a season because there's not that much competition where co-ed teams get 24 games, I don't think that's fair and from a development standpoint, they're not getting that in-game experience where we can put them in small area games all we want, but there is something about playing another team with a different jersey on and you're going head to head with them, and I think there's a lot of development that takes place in that.
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Creative freedom, free form play, which is we don't have a lot of anymore with kids, so I think it's one of those things too is okay.
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How can we utilize our space with what we have and ensuring that the girls can still get development?
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They still get the same number of games.
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Now, understanding, is it ideal and perfect?
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No, but being upfront in our communication with our families of hey, this is what it looks like, really good, but we don't tell them which way they can go so they can join co-ed and they can play all girls.
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And then we provide opportunities where there is that crossover Because, like you said, there might be a parent that just wants their girl.
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It's for ease.
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Their 8U boy plays at this time on rink two, and then their 8U co-ed girl could play at this time, and now I only have to go to the rink one night or twice a week, but on the same night, and so I think we we give it up to the families, and every family has a different thought process behind it.
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So our thought was we didn't want to put these, these families, in buckets for them now, if they have questions about it, they want to try out one or the other, totally open to helping them walk through that process and navigate what that might look like, while still providing that bridge over that.