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Jan. 10, 2026

Youth Hockey Development: Why Early Selection Doesn’t Define Success

One of the most stressful moments in youth hockey doesn’t happen during a game. It happens in a tryout. Every year, young players hear words like identified, selected, and elite. Some kids get picked early and fast-tracked into special progr…

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Jan. 8, 2026

Are We Developing Hockey Players Too Early? Lessons from World Juniors & European Models

Every January, the World Junior Hockey Championship gives us a glimpse of hockey’s future. And every year, it also exposes uncomfortable truths about how the game is being developed around the world. This season, when Canada was eliminated by…

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Jan. 6, 2026

Is It Okay to Miss Hockey? Navigating Guilt, Balance, and Burnout in Girls Hockey

When Hockey Guilt Creeps In: Why It’s Okay to Miss Sometimes For so many families in girls hockey, the schedule alone can feel overwhelming. Practices. Games. Tournaments. Travel. Add in school, family events, other sports, and the occasional…

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Jan. 3, 2026

Mental Strength for Young Hockey Players: Simple Tools to Build Confidence Before the Game

Mental Strength Starts Before You Hit the Ice If you’re a hockey player, chances are you’ve felt it before — that nervous feeling in your stomach on the way to the rink. Maybe it’s before a big game. Maybe it’s after a…

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Dec. 27, 2025

Reset, Refocus, Rekindle: How Families Can Make the Second Half of the Hockey Season Matter

Reset, Refocus, Rekindle: Making the Second Half of the Hockey Season Matter The middle of the youth hockey season is a strange place. The excitement of September is long gone. The early wins or losses have settled in. Practices feel repetitive. T…

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Dec. 20, 2025

Training the Mind Like the Body in Youth Hockey

Why Mental Fitness Can’t Be an Afterthought In youth hockey, we invest enormous time and energy into physical development. We talk about skating mechanics, shot velocity, strength programs, and skills sessions. But when it comes to the mind &…

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Dec. 18, 2025

How Kids Can Start Building a Future in Hockey — With Insights from Working in Hockey’s Nick Bowins

Building a Hockey Life Beyond the Ice — Lessons for Young Players For many young athletes, the dream is simple: play hockey for as long as possible. But what happens after the final buzzer sounds? What happens when the skates eventually come …

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Dec. 16, 2025

How Puerto Rico’s Women’s National Team Made History — And What Young Players Can Learn From Their Gold Medal Run

How Puerto Rico’s Women’s National Team Made History — And What Young Players Can Learn From Their Gold Medal Run When the Puerto Rico Women’s National Team stepped onto the small 3-on-3 ice surface in Buenos Aires, few coul…

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Dec. 13, 2025

How Kids (and Parents!) Can Build Real Careers in Hockey — Insights from Nick Bowins of Working in Hockey

Introduction: Hockey Isn’t Just a Game — It’s an Entire Ecosystem Most kids grow up dreaming of playing college hockey, the PWHL, or maybe even the NHL. But what they don’t see — because no one shows them — is th…

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Dec. 11, 2025

How Young Players Can Train Their Hockey Brain: Insights from Cognitive Coach Satoshi Takano

Train the Brain, Change the Game: How Kids Can Build Hockey IQ Every Day When parents think about helping their kids become better hockey players, the first ideas that come to mind are usually the classics: skating lessons, more reps, more shooting…

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Dec. 9, 2025

Living the Dream & Embracing the Grind — Hayley Scamurra’s Journey to 2026

When you’re a young hockey player dreaming about playing professionally someday, it’s easy to imagine the bright lights, the jerseys, and the big games. What’s harder to picture is everything in between — the travel, the pres…

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Dec. 6, 2025

How Cognitive Training Builds Smarter Hockey Players: Insights from Satoshi Takano

🧠 How Cognitive Training Builds Smarter, More Confident Hockey Players Featuring insights from cognitive-performance innovator Satoshi Takano Hockey parents hear it all the time: “Your kid needs more Hockey IQ.”But what does that actua…

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Dec. 2, 2025

The New Physicality of Women’s Hockey: What Players, Parents & Coaches Need to Know

The women’s game is changing — fast. And if you’ve watched the PWHL this season, you’ve seen it clearly: the game is faster, stronger, and more physical than ever before. On a recent episode of Our Girls Play Hockey, Lee sat…

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Nov. 29, 2025

Why One Voice Matters: Fixing Over-Coaching and Bench Chaos in Youth Hockey

Every hockey parent has had a moment where they look at the bench and think: Does it really take this many adults to coach a youth hockey team?For one listener, that question became impossible to ignore — and the letter he sent us started a co…

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Nov. 27, 2025

🍂 A Season of Thanks — and Hockey!

As families across the country gather for turkey, stuffing, and time together, the Our Kids Play Hockey crew is doing what they do best — sharing stories, laughter, and a whole lot of gratitude with their hockey family. In this year’s T…

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Nov. 25, 2025

The Truth About Hockey Life Balance (and Why It Might Not Exist)

Hockey Life Balance: What It Really Means for Young Athletes Finding balance between hockey, school, family, and personal life is one of the toughest challenges young athletes face. But is true balance even possible—or is it really about prio…

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Nov. 22, 2025

The Car Ride Is Still Not for Coaching — Why Parents Need to Hit the Brakes

🚗 The Ride Home That Can Make or Break a Hockey Kid Every hockey parent knows the feeling: the game just ended, and the emotions are high. Maybe your child missed a breakaway. Maybe the team blew a lead. You start to talk — or worse, “c…

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Nov. 20, 2025

Seeing the Whole Ice — Why Situational Awareness is the Smartest Skill in Youth Hockey

🏒 Introduction: Beyond the Puck In youth hockey, players are often taught to focus on the play right in front of them — the puck, the rush, the goal. But as Lee and Mike explain in this week’s episode of The Ride to the Rink, the real m…

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Nov. 18, 2025

Do Girls Take Hockey Coaching More Literally Than Boys?

Coaching Girls in Hockey: Why Words Matter More Than You Think One of the most fascinating challenges in youth hockey coaching is recognizing that how you say something can be just as important as what you say. This was at the heart of a recent Our…

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Nov. 15, 2025

The Mental Load of Being a Hockey Parent: Managing Pressure, Guilt & Joy

🧊 The Mental Load of Being a Hockey Parent: Why You’re Not Crazy (The Hockey World Is) If you’ve ever found yourself gripping your coffee in a cold rink at 6 a.m. thinking, “Why does this feel like so much?” — this epi…

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Nov. 12, 2025

You Can’t Text “I’m Open!” — Why Hockey Players Need Real Conversations

🏒 Introduction: A Modern Communication Breakdown “Okay.” “K.” “👍.”Three words — or symbols — that can cause a whole lot of confusion. In this episode of The Ride To The Rink, Mike and Lee dive into t…

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Nov. 11, 2025

Unlocking Your Potential Through Mindset Changes with Coach Nick Stoop

What do you do when your child starts dreading the rink? In a recent Ride to the Rink episode, Olympian Hayley Scamurra and mental performance coach Nick Stoop joined Lee Elias to explore powerful lessons around mentorship, mindset, and what truly …

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Nov. 8, 2025

Teaching Kids to Communicate in Hockey — Lessons from Jen Fry

Teaching Kids to Communicate in Hockey: Lessons Every Parent Should Hear When your child sits on the bench or struggles to find their voice with a coach, it’s easy to jump in and “fix it.” But what if the best thing you can do is …

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Nov. 6, 2025

Beyond the Ice — Making the Most of Hockey Tournaments

🎬 Tournament Time: More Than Just Games For hockey families, tournaments are more than a weekend of games — they’re where friendships are forged, lessons are learned, and core memories are made. But too often, players and parents miss o…

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